irL word: A Sapphic Queer Friendsgiving at The Virgil

irL word is a sapphic queer party, and its November edition is a Friendsgiving. The flyer sets the mood with a black lace doily, pink and orange maple leaves and a dotted script that spells out "a sapphic queer friendsgiving." It lands at The Virgil on Friday, November 13, a good pick if you are mapping out LA events this weekend and the nights around it.

When: Friday, November 13, 2026, 10:00 PM to 2:00 AM Where: The Virgil, 4519 Santa Monica Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90029 Price: $15.00 per the DICE listing Tickets: DICE

What to expect

The flyer bills the night as "sounds by JFELD & COWBOY BLVCK" and "hosted by VICKY & MALACK." That makes it a DJ-led party with hosts working the room, not a seated dinner. The Friendsgiving angle is about gathering your chosen family, your exes' friends and the people you met at the last one, then dancing until the room empties out.

The event page lists the night simply as a party, and there is no longer description to lean on, so treat the details above as the whole program. If you want the full picture, the DICE page is the place to check for updates before the date.

About The Virgil

The Virgil is a family-owned cocktail bar and music venue on Santa Monica Blvd, right where East Hollywood meets Silver Lake. It opens only on nights with an event, and it is 21+ with a valid ID. For EDM in Los Angeles at this scale, small rooms like this are where a lot of the city's queer nightlife lives: close quarters, a bar within arm's reach and a dance floor that fills fast.

Getting there

The venue recommends a rideshare, which is the easy call on a Friday night when you plan to have a drink or two. Street parking on Santa Monica Blvd is limited late, so leave extra time if you drive. Doors and entry rules are set per show, so check the ticket page the day of.

Tickets are $15.00 on DICE. Cheap nights like this sell out in smaller rooms, so buy ahead rather than count on the door. For more nights like this one, browse the EDM events page, or look at what else is on in Silver Lake. It is one of the things to do in Los Angeles this month that costs less than a cocktail tab and puts you in a room full of friends.